7 Things Successful People Do Differently!!!

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What is it that makes some people successful in life, able to reach whatever goal they like, while others get stuck in the same place for years, if not decades?

Is it their education?  Where they were born?  Who their family is?  Is it genetics?

The reality is…it’s none of the above.

In my working with thousands of people over the years to help them change their lives, to help them create both financial success and personal fulfillment, I’ve found 7 things in particular that successful people do differently.

I’ve outlined them below.  How many of these 7 things are you doing?

1 – They first change how they think and feel

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Let’s start with how they think:
Talk to anybody who built success in their life and they’ll tell you that they changed their thinking in order to get different results.  Every one of us is a product of our thinking.  Our finances, relationships, health, happiness and every other area are dictated by our thinking.  If you want a different result in life, you need to change your thinking first.

How they feel:
Very often people get hung up on “thinking like successful people” and forget a key element: what they’re feeling.  Listening to your emotions is critical to understanding what is holding you back, both consciously and unconsciously.

Successful people know that our emotions drive everything.  If you’re feeling overwhelmed, afraid, stressed, sad, depressed or any other negative emotion, your brain is less resourceful and less able to help you make good decisions and take important action.  If you want to have more energy, make better decisions, be more creative and have more success in life, develop the habit of paying attention to your emotions and then doing what’s needed to be in the right emotional state (like using Tapping, which we’ll get to later!)

2 – They believe they deserve success

Successful people believe they deserve success, unsuccessful people do not.

The area where this is most evident is with money.  Financially successful people generally feel they deserve to be successful, and so they’ve created it in their lives.

So what qualifies somebody as “deserving success” or not?  Only one thing…the rules they create for it in their own brain.

Oftentimes people, consciously or unconsciously, think they don’t deserve success because of false beliefs like, “I’m not a good enough person” or, “I don’t work hard enough” or, “I’m not smart enough” or any other of a laundry list of negative limiting beliefs.

In order to find out what you believe about success just SAY and COMPLETE these two phrases out loud:

– I don’t deserve success because… (say what first comes up, don’t question it).
– I deserve success because… (say what first comes up, don’t question it!)

When you say those two phrases out loud, your unconscious brain will give you the reasons that have been programmed as to why you believe one way or the other.  If you’re not getting the answer you’d like (or you’re surprised by what’s coming up), don’t worry, I’ll show you how to change your belief systems around success in the coming days, all using EFT Tapping.

Remember, at the end of the day every, and I mean EVERY, person deserves success.  Every person is capable of growth, of love, of giving beyond themselves, and being rewarded for it.  Anyone can succeed financially, in relationships, with their health, in any area of their life.

In the coming days, I’ll show you how to get there.

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3 – They do whatever it takes to overcome events and patterns from the past that don’t serve them

Most of the habits, patterns and beliefs that we have today were developed between the ages of 0 and 6 years old.  They weren’t developed consciously, they were essentially downloaded from our parents, and from other people and events happening around us at the time.

We didn’t have choice as to what beliefs were given to us, or what events were happening around us.  Unfortunately, many of those beliefs, patterns and experiences were negative and have limited us in our adult life.

Some have had tougher upbringings than others, with more negative experiences and more negative beliefs about themselves and the world, but regardless of the experiences…there is good news….

Today, as adults, we have choice over what beliefs, patterns and habits we want to keep or discard, and we have choice over the meanings we give our past experiences.

Successful people are aware of how limiting old beliefs, habits, patterns and experiences can be… and they do whatever it takes to change them.

That doesn’t mean it’s always easy.  Overcoming childhood abuse issues, or deep-rooted self-confidence issues, or overwhelmingly negative thought patterns can be a challenge, butsuccessful people are committed to their growth, no matter what.

They know that the past does not equal the future.  That past challenges can be dwelled upon for years, or accepted as necessary life lessons on their path.

Overcoming limiting beliefs and difficult events from your past is something that EFT Tapping is especially powerful at helping with, more so than any other technique I’ve ever seen.  I’ve had the privilege of using Tapping to help people with some enormous challenges through our Tapping Solution Foundation, like veterans with PTSD, children genocide survivors in Rwanda, 1st responders of the Sandy Hook school shooting (my home town), and much more.

In the coming days, I’ll show you exactly how to do it for yourself.  I’ll show you how to overcome any obstacle from your past.

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4 – They silence their critical voice

A common misconception is that successful people don’t have doubts, that they don’t have a critical voice, that they’re not afraid when they face tough challenges.  Reality couldn’t be further from the truth.

Successful people face all of these challenges regularly, and probably more often than unsuccessful people because of how much they challenge themselves, they just use tremendous courage to never let it stop them.

The good thing is that courage is a muscle that can be flexed and developed over time.  Every successful person had to overcome their critical voice over little things before they got to bigger and bigger things.

Building this muscle starts with having the courage to address your critical voice, on anything big or little, to listen to what it has to say, and overcome it.

I’ll show you exactly how in the coming days.  Together, we’ll flex your courage muscle.

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5 – They’re willing to fail, repeatedly…

Successful people see failing as a part of the learning process.  And no matter how much they fail, they’re never willing to quit.

They also never see failure as defining who they are.  When unsuccessful people fail, they see themselves as a failure.  Learn to never see yourself as a failure and to see failure as a learning process, and you’ll never in fact do the one thing you’re avoiding…failing.

“How’s that?” you’re thinking.  Because failing implies that the journey is over.  If you see individual failures as a part of a longer journey of success, then you in fact never actually fail.

Here are some of the most successful people ever who never let individual failures stop them:

1 – Henry Ford – Failed in his early business projects and was left broke 5 times before he founded Ford Motor Company.
2 – R. H. Macy – Founder of the Macy’s department store, R.H. Macy started seven failed businesses before finally hitting it big with his store in New York City.
3 – Walt Disney – Walt Disney was fired by a newspaper editor because “he lacked imagination and had no good ideas.”  After that, he started a number of businesses that didn’t last long and ended with bankruptcy and failure.
4 – Albert Einstein – Einstein didn’t speak until he was four and didn’t read until he was seven, which made his teachers and parents think he was mentally handicapped, slow and anti-social.
5 – Jerry Seinfeld – The first time he walked on stage he froze and was jeered and booed off stage.  Do you think he quit after that?  Nope.  The very next night he came back and completed his set to laughter and applause.

I could go on and on with people like this but I think you get it.

Failure never exists IF you see it as part of a longer journey of success.

And if you want to know how to overcome individual setbacks quicker, and overcome fears easier, to reach success faster, I’ll show you how in the coming days, using Tapping of course.

 6 – They do the important things first, not the easy things

Pretty much every person I talk to or come across on a daily basis feels that they have too much going on, that they’re too busy.  It seems to just be a part of this modern lifestyle.

When it comes to our time, and what we do with it each day, successful people have one tremendously important trait that makes them successful…they do the important things FIRST, not the easy things.

If you wait until you have more time to do the important things, you’ll run out of time and it will never get done.  It’s why people don’t exercise, or write that book, or start that business…

Successful people prioritize their life differently.  They know that the important stuff is what will get them to where they want to be.  They do the big tasks on projects at the beginning of the day, and they leave the emails to later in the day.

If you want to be more successful, learn how to do the tasks that matter first.

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7 – They get clear on what they want and who they want to be, and then take daily action to get there

Successful people know that there is tremendous power in clarity. They get clear on what they want to achieve and who they want to be in life, and they take consistent daily action to get there.

They never let their current limitations stop them from seeing a better future. Unsuccessful people get hung up on their current situation and current challenges and never allow themselves to have seemingly unrealistic futures.

Successful people allow themselves to dream and then work to get there, even if there isn’t a clear path to achieving what they want.

They also see themselves not just as they are now, but better than they are now. They hold a vision for themselves of how they can grow into being more successful, happier, more giving people.

If you struggle to dream big or find yourself finding reasons for why your dreams can’t come true, don’t worry, together we’ll work to eliminate the mental blocks that are keeping you from building an empowering future.

Published by: Nick Ortner

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